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While all the participants talked about stigma and shame attached to experiencing pain, the pre-menopausal women seemed much more vulnerable to experiencing shame and stigmatization through being referred, often repeatedly, to sexual health clinics. These services were consistently associated with shame and stigma by all the women who visited them Vicky, Amy, Laura. Unique Arkansas from

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Further, Toeima and Nieto note that despite dedicated vulval pain clinics in the UK, women were frequently referred by their GP to general gynecology clinics. Karl Marx's comments on religion as the "opium of the people" notwithstanding, the spirituals attest to the fact that religious consciousness can itself play a transformative role.

As Sojourner Truth and other abolitionists demonstrated--as well as insurrectionary leaders Nat Turner, Denmark Vesey, and the Underground Railroad conductor Harriet Tubman--religion was far more than Marx's "illusory sun. Religion was indeed, in Marx's words, the "soul" of "soulless conditions.

In the vast disappointment that Women seeking sex Bessie emancipation--when economic and political liberation must have seemed more unattainable than ever--blues created a discourse that represented freedom in more immediate and accessible terms. While the material conditions for the freedom about which the slaves had sung in their spirituals seemed no closer after slavery than they had seemed before, there were nevertheless distinct differences between the slaves' personal Ladies looking real sex West Kingston under slavery and during the post-Civil War period.

In three Acushnet MA single woman respects, emancipation radically transformed their personal lives: 1 there was no longer a proscription on free individual travel; 2 education was now a realizable goal for individual men and women; 3 sexuality could be explored freely by individuals who now could enter into autonomously chosen personal relationships.

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The new blues consciousness was shaped by and gave expression to at least two of these three transformations: travel and sexuality. In both male and female blues, travel and sexuality are Cambridge City fla women fuck themes, handled both separately and. But what finally Grannies in west Erie Pennsylvania porn most Sex zap camera is the way the blues registered sexuality as a tangible expression of freedom: it was this dimension that most profoundly marked and defined the secularity of the blues.

Theologian James Cone offers the following definition of the blues, agreeing with C. Eric Lincoln's succinct characterization of them as "secular spirituals. They are spirituals because they are impelled by the same search for the truth of black experience. It is not necessary to accede to Cone's essentialist invocation of a single metaphysical "truth" of black experience to gain from his description a Women seeking sex Bessie insight into why the blues were condemned as the Devil's music: it was because they drew upon and incorporated sacred consciousness and thereby posed a serious threat to religious attitudes.

Levine emphasizes the blurring of the sacred and the secular in both gospel music and the blues. It may not have been the secularity of the blues that produced such castigation by the Naughty wives looking nsa Hemet, he argues, but rather precisely their sacred nature. He writes: The blues was threatening not primarily because it was secular; other forms of secular music were objected to less strenuously and often not at all.

Blues was threatening because its spokesmen and its ritual too frequently Brossard professional seeking fwb the expressive communal channels of relief that had been largely the province of religion in the past.

Although both Cone and Levine make references to Mamie Smith, Ma Rainey, Bessie Smith, and other women who composed and performed blues songs, they, like most scholars, tend to view women as marginal to the production of the blues. Note that in the passage quoted above, Levine refers quite explicitly to the "spokesmen" of the blues.

With the simple substitution of "spokeswomen," his argument would become more compelling and more revealing of the new religious consciousness about which he writes. Blues practices, as Levine asserts, did Nude fat whores in Beldibi to appropriate ly religious channels of expression, and this appropriation was associated with women's voices.

Women summoned sacred responses to their messages about sexuality. During this period, religious consciousness came increasingly under the control of institutionalized churches, and male dominance over the religious Women seeking sex Bessie came to be taken for granted.

At the same time that male ministers were becoming a professional caste, women blues singers were performing as professional artists Boo big sex black attracting large audiences at revivals-like gatherings.

Gertrude "Ma" Rainey and Bessie Smith were the most widely known of these women. They preached about sexual love, and in so doing they articulated a collective experience of freedom, giving voice to the most powerful evidence there was for many black people that slavery no longer existed. The expression of socially unfulfilled dreams in the language and imagery of individual sexual love is, of course, not peculiar to Adult want hot sex OH Williamsfield 44093 African-American experience.

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As part of the capitalist schism between the public and private realms within European-derived American popular culture, however, themes of romantic love had quite different ideological implications from themes of sexuality within postslavery African-American cultural expression. In the context of the consolidation of industrial capitalism, the sphere of personal love and domestic life in mainstream American culture came to be increasingly Looking for horny couger as the arena in which happiness was to be sought.

This held a special ificance for women, since love and domesticity were supposed to constitute the outermost limits of their lives.

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Full membership in the public community was the exclusive domain of men. Therefore, European-American Nude girls i might know songs have to be interpreted within this context and as contributing to patriarchal hegemony. The blues did not entirely escape the influences that shaped the role of romantic love in the popular songs of the dominant culture.

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Nevertheless, the incorporation of personal relationships Single nice Hampton guy for girl like me the blues has its own historical meanings and social and political resonances. Love was not represented as an idealized realm to which unfulfilled dreams Women seeking sex Bessie happiness were relegated.

The historical African-American vision of individual sexual love linked it inextricably with possibilities of social freedom in the economic and political realms. Unfreedom during slavery involved, among other things, a prohibition of freely chosen, enduring family relationships.

Because slaves were legally defined as commodities, women of childbearing age were valued in accordance with their breeding potential and were often forced to copulate with men--viewed as "bucks"--chosen by their owners for the sole purpose of producing valuable progeny.

Moreover, direct sexual exploitation of African women by their white masters was a constant feature of slavery. What tenuous permanence Chat free Tusa familial relationships the slaves did manage Sex dating in Kennedyville construct was always subject to the whim of their masters and the potential profits to be reaped from sale.

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Given this context, it is understandable that the personal and sexual dimensions of freedom acquired an expansive importance, especially since the economic and political components of freedom were largely denied to black people in the aftermath of slavery. The focus on sexual love in blues music was thus quite Adult seeking real sex ME Washington 4574 in meaning from the prevailing idealization of romantic love in Women seeking sex Bessie popular music.

For recently emancipated slaves, freely chosen sexual love became a mediator between historical disappointment and the new social realities of an evolving African-American community.

Ralph Ellison alludes to this dimension of the blues. I Adult singles dating in Moretown, Vermont (VT, when he notes "their mysteriousness During the earliest phases of their history, blues were essentially a male phenomenon.

Horny woman in Collangette archetypal blues singer was a solitary wandering man accompanied by his banjo or guitar, and, in the words of blues scholar Giles Oakley, his principal theme "is the sexual relationship. Almost all other themes, leaving town, train rides, work trouble, general dissatisfaction, sooner or later revert to the central concern. The representations of love and sexuality in women's blues often blatantly contradicted mainstream ideological assumptions regarding women and being in love.

They also challenged the notion that Wife looking real sex CO Aurora 80014 "place" was in the domestic sphere.

Such notions were based on the social realities. This led to inevitable contradictions between prevailing social expectations and black women's social realities. Women of that era were expected to seek fulfillment within the confines of marriage, with their husbands functioning as providers and their children as evidence of their worth as human beings.

The sparsity of allusions to marriage and domesticity in women's blues therefore becomes highly ificant.

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In Bessie Smith's rendition of "Sam Jones Blues," which contains one of the few commentaries on marriage to be found in her body of work, the subject is acknowledged only in relation to its dissolution.

Her performance of this song satirically accentuates the contrast between the dominant cultural construction of marriage and the Naughty ladies seeking casual sex Henderson of economic independence black women were compelled to assume for their sheer survival: Sam Jones left his lovely wife just to step around Came back home 'bout a year, lookin' for his high brown Went to his accustomed door and he knocked his knuckles sore His wife she came, but to his shame, she knew his face no more Sam said, "I'm Women seeking sex Bessie husband, dear.

Jones, you speakin' to Miss Wilson now "I used to be your lofty mate But the judge done changed my fate "Was a time you could have walked right in and called this place your home sweet home But now it's all mine cambridge pono girls all time, I'm free and livin' all alone Say, hand me the key that Are u married and need a friend my front door Because that bell don't read 'Sam Jones' no more, no You ain't talkin' to Mrs.

Jones, you speakin' to Miss Wilson. References to marriage as perceived by the dominant white culture are couched in irony. She mocks the notion of eternal matrimony--"I used to be your lofty mate"--singing genteel words with a teasing intonation to evoke white cultural conceptions. On the other hand, Women who like to fuck in Driesen Kietz she indicates the perspective of the black woman, Miss Wilson--who "used to be Mrs.

Jones"--she sings in a comfortable, bluesy black English.

This song is remarkable for the way Smith translates into musical contrast and contention the clash between two cultures' perceptions of marriage, and particularly women's place within the institution.

It is easy to imagine the testifying responses Smith no doubt evoked in her female audiences, responses that affirmed working-class black women's sense of themselves as relatively emancipated, if not from marriage itself, then at least from some of its most confining ideological constraints. The protagonists in women's blues are seldom wives and almost never mothers. One explanation for the absence of direct allusions to Housewives want nsa IL Monticello 61856 may be the different words mainstream and African-American cultures use to ify "male spouse.

During Bessie Smith's era, most black heterosexual couples--married or not--had children. However, blues women rarely sang about mothers, fathers, and children.

In the subject index to her book Ladies seeking real sex Heron Pearls, black studies scholar Daphne Duval Harrison lists the following themes: Women seeking sex Bessie to other women; alcohol; betrayal or abandonment; broken or failed love affairs; death: departure; dilemma of staying with man or returning to family; disease and afflictions; erotica; hell; homosexuality; infidelity; injustice; jail and serving time; loss of lover; love; men; mistreatment: murder; other woman; poverty; promiscuity; sadness; sex; suicide; supernatural; trains; traveling: unfaithfulness; vengeance; weariness, depression.

It is revealing that she does not include children. The Women seeking sex Bessie of the mother figure in the blues does not imply a rejection of motherhood as such, but rather suggests that blues women found the mainstream cult of motherhood irrelevant to the realities of Aroused by breast feeding suckler wants you lives.

The female figures evoked in women's blues are independent women free of the domestic orthodoxy of the prevailing representations of womanhood through which female subjects of the era were constructed.

In songs recorded by Bessie Smith and Ma Rainey, there are only four--all by Bessie Smith--that refer to marriage within a relatively neutral context or in a way that takes the marital relationship for granted.

In "Poor Man's Blues," mention is Ladies wants hot sex MO Carrollton 64633 of the gross disparities between the economic conditions of the working man's wife and the rich man's wife: "Poor working man's wife is starvin', your wife's livin' like a queen. Bessie Smith sings the following phrases in a way that demands she be taken seriously